He sent me a like on hinge and pursued me. Long story short- After two months I discovered he wasn’t that attracted to me and only wanted sex. He pretty much ghosted me after we had sex and told me he is just too busy to see me and that he has commitment issues. My heart and self esteem is shattered. It’s been two months now and I STILL can’t move on. I’m terrified of dating any man ever again because of this. I did everything “right“. He sent me a like on hinge. He asked me out on dates and paid for them. He would text me continuously, then suddenly I just got smacked in the face. I still feel so hurt and confused, how can someone be so desperate for sex that they pretend to like someone for two months? Like I was a fool thinking we were holding something real, and he just never liked me all that much.
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